Friday, September 5, 2008

We've moved!!!



Our blogging has moved!!!
I am combining my blogs into one!

Come visit us at Heads Up Seven Up!

Tuesday, August 5, 2008

LID!!!!

Yea!! We have our LID - July 24,2008!
The LID is our Log In Date - this means China has our paper work!
We were told that our Letter Of Acceptance could take 3 months.
We are hoping and praying that it wont take that long!!!
We are cleaning the house getting ready for our little girl to join
our family!

Thanks for all your prayers!
Jodi Sue :)

Tuesday, July 15, 2008

We are DTC!



Yea! Finally! Our paperwork in on the way to China! I got a call from our agency today and Karla said our paperwork is officially on the way! We are so relieved! Some of our paperwork was close to expiring, if the Chinese Consulate had returned that it could have been another month or more! Thank you Jesus!

Karla said that it is still 4-5 months before travel time. We are hoping this is an over exaggeration! Yea!!! Prayerfully our little girl will be home before Thanksgiving!

Thanks to all of you who are continually praying for our entire family!

We hope to get an update on Jorja soon!
I can't wait to sit and cuddle with her!

Wednesday, July 9, 2008

What???





Can you believe this! I'm not totally clear about this but for some reason FEDEX was unable to deliver our Dossier to the Chinese Consoltate in Houston (not sure if they wouldn't deliver it or the Consulate wouldn't accept it from FEDEX.) Anyway, our Dossier sat at FEDEX for over a week!
DHL has now delivered the papers safe and sound to the Chinese Consultate. Prayerfully we will have everything okay'd and our Dossier will be on the way to China next week.

Ohhhhh, I am so ready for this roller coaster to be over and to hold our little girl!

Please continue praying for all of our kids as we prepare to grow again!

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

Our little girl waits so patiently!

The Waiting Child
An Adoption Poem

By Debbie Bodie

I saw you meet your child today
You kissed your baby joyfully
And as you walked away with him
I played pretend you'd chosen me.

I'm happy for the baby, yet
Inside I'm aching miserably
I want to plead as you go by,
"Does no-one want a child of three?"

I saw you meet your child today
In love with her before you met
And as I watched you take her out
I knew it wasn't my turn yet.

I recognize you from last year!
I knew I'd seen your face before!
But you came for a second babe.
Does no-one want a child of four?

I saw you meet your child today
But this time there was something new
A nurse came in and took MY hand
And then she gave my hand to you.

Can this be true? I'm almost six!
And there are infants here, you see?
But then you kissed me and I knew
The child you picked this time was me.

Copyright 1997

Sunday, June 22, 2008

5 Kids!

What am I thinking?
Yesterday was so peaceful! For a few hours I only had two kids playing in the house.
Brady was at soccer (working as a referee!), and Jailyn was napping. Even DH Bryan was gone - watching Brady and other teams. Kenzie and Conner were playing computer games together. I could hear them in the other room, but no one came to ask me anything! They were quiet happy that I leave them alone and I was happy to ablidge!
The TV was off and I actually had some quiet time! WOW!!! That doesn't happen around here very often!
I enjoyed it so much I thought - I am doing the right thing - wanting a big family? Adopting another child? Four is overwhelming at times, what are Bryan and I going to do with five!
When Bryan got home I had to go run some errands, and I went alone!!! When I was done picking up a few things, I ran by the soccer fields to see if Brady was done. He had just begun a game, which a friend of ours coaches and his son plays on. I went home and got the rest of the crew and we went back to the fields to watch the game. It was so fun to have all my kids there - hanging out! Running around the fields! Playing together, laughing. Does it get better then this? Not really!
As we were playing I couldn't help but get very sad that Jorja was not with us! I can't wait to see her running around, giggling, playing with her brothers,and sisters!
I guess I am made out for this big family thing!
I believe if God gives you a calling I need to heed His call!
Though money is tight at times, and we love hand-me-downs! And we have two cars that could really be put to pasture, we need new carpet, and a new couch. I hope and pray this is not what my kids remember about me. I hope they remember that their Dad and I followed God's call and went forward in faith to add to our family! I pray they learn to do the same!
A friend of mine in college would always tell me that I was going to be a missionary in Asia. I always knew I was called to adopt children, but never knew that two of my children would be from China. Rodney, I wish I could find you after all these years and tell you how right you were!

This has been one of my favorite songs since college - God will let us know where He wants us to go! We need to trust and follow Him! Lord of the Harvest I'll Go! (I have still not been able to figure out the whole you tube and blogspot so here is the link)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_WN7ezuRYpA

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

You know you are an adoptive parent when...



1. The fact that there are 143 million children without a parent to kiss them goodnight has made you lose sleep.
2. You realize DNA has nothing to do with love and family.
3. You can't watch Adoption Stories on TLC without sobbing.
4. The fact that, if 7% of Christians adopted 1 child there would be no orphans in the world, is convicting to you.
5. You spend free time surfing blogs about families who have experienced the blessing of adoption.
6. It drives you crazy when people ask you about adopted child's 'real' parents.
7. You have ever been 'pregnant' with your adoptive child longer than it takes an elephant to give birth.(2 years!)
8. You had no idea how you would afford to adopt but stepped out in faith anyway, knowing where God calls you He will provide.
9. You have ever taken an airplane ride half-way around the world with a child you just met.
10. You believe God's heart is for adoption.
11. You realize that welcoming a child into your heart and family is one of the most important legacies you could ever leave on this earth.
12. You know what the word 'Dossier' means, and you can actually pronounce it!
13. You have welcomed a social worker into the most private parts of your life.
14. You shudder when people say your child is so lucky that you adopted them, knowing full well you are the blessed one to have him or her in your life.

Saturday, June 14, 2008

One step Closer




Our Dossier is on the way to the Chinese Consulate! We hope to be DTC(Dossier to China) by July 1st! From what we have heard - SN is a 3 month wait from our LID! (Log in Date) Hopefully we will travel September or October!
Jorja Noelle we can't wait to meet you!

Thursday, May 15, 2008

Praise God!


I just received word that the 171-H form that we have been waiting on for almost 3 months, is finally on the way! We should be receiving it in the mail very soon! YEA!!! Mail comes in about an hour today! This may be the day! After we have receive this form we can get the rest of our paperwork done! I am doing the happy dance again!
Oh, adoption is such a roller coaster of emotions! So glad that we know God is in control and His timing is perfect!

Tuesday, May 13, 2008

Jorja's Province should be safe!

I have received a lot of emails asking if Jorja is okay after this earth quake in China. I have not heard official word, but her Province is quiet a distance from Sichuan Province. From one of my frequently watched blogs Rumor Queen, many adoptive parents are safe and so are their babies. Continue praying for these people!

I am putting together another care package for Jorja! I was advised to not send a stuffed animal - to hard to keep clean. The latest photos I received from a new friend, Jorja's friend's soon to be momma, Jorja is holding on to her friends stuffed animal! Every photo Jorja is holding this sweet stuffed Panda! I am so glad that she likes Panda's! If any one knew me in high school or college you will remember my room(s) filled with Pandas! Now Jailyn and Jorja's room have pandas. One is even painted on the wall. :) I did get a stuffed animal a few months ago which I can record my voice and she can play it, and hear my voice. This looked like the perfect gift for Jorja as we all wait to be united! Hopefully, it won't scare her! :)

We are still waiting on our 171-H! Can't believe how long it is taking!

Have a great day!

Thursday, May 8, 2008

Our Cry!


Those in charge of our paperwork, please hear us!

New Photos of Jorja!

We received some new photos of Jorja and her friends! These were sent from another waiting mom and dad. They are waiting on the same paperwork that we are. Wouldn't it be great if we could travel at the same time to get our girls and have the same gotcha' day! That would make a very traumatic time for the girls a little easier! Of course, the airport good-byes would be horrible! But, hopefully we will be bonded a bit before the plane trip though.
We are excited that we have been in contact with the families of Jorja's good friends. We hope and pray that we can keep these friendships going! These families live in the mid-west, near Jailyn's friend Evan (from her orphanage). Hopefully, we can see everyone on our trips to the mid-west!

Still no news on our 171-H. I am trying to be patient, but every day is so important to getting our little girl home!

I hate writing a post with out posting photos too. Photos are much more fun! So, here is a photo of our two precious girls waiting for their sister!

SLUMBER PARTY FUN!

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Getting Discouraged


Boy this has been a hard few weeks. It has been 7 weeks since we got fingerprinted. And we are still waiting for our 171-H!
No word so far!
I also heard that there is a rumor that there will be no adoption travel to China this summer. (probably because of the Olympics).
Though we didn't think we would travel this summer - I am worried that this will put us back even further to brining our sweet Jorja home!
"Lord, help me trust that you will work everything out! and that your timing is perfect! Lord, hold our dear Jorja in your strong arms. Rock her, hold her, protector her, let her now we wont give up getting to her and bringing her home. Thank you for blessing us with her, we just want to get her home to the family as soon as possible."


Never be afraid to trust an unknown future to a known God (Corrie Ten Boon)

Thursday, March 13, 2008

Happy Dance!

I am doing the happy dance and thankfully no one is here to see me!

I just received a call from adoption agency and yeah!
The agency just received our Permission to Adopt letter from China!

China says we can adopt Suixi Chun Yu! (otherwise known as Jorja)
yeah!
Thank you God! We are so excited to get her home!

Please pray for us and that time and paperwork will go quickly! Every
month must seem like an eternity to Jorja!
Of course, now we can send her a package and photos of her new forever family!

I'm so excited I can't stand it!

Wednesday, March 12, 2008

More paperwork


More paperwork finished. We thought we were okay with our birth certificates but the apostille expired, so we needed to re-order. It wasn't too painful. And there were a few nice government employees that I spoke too. :) Sometimes I wonder what just made someone so upset that they have to be so rude to the next person on the phone. Hope that lady in Chicago has a better evening! :)


Today has been a quiet day, Jailyn is sick with the flu, so I have had some down time. I keep finding myself day dreaming about our little Jorja! Is she really as shy as she looks in the few photos we have of her? Will she be able to hang with this crazy, loud family. I just pray that God is preparing Jorja to meet her forever family!

Tuesday, March 4, 2008

We love you Jorja!


Snow in Texas!

Sunday, March 2, 2008

Jorja come home

We have been trying to educate Jailyn on the fact that at some point we will
be leaving for China and for Jorja. This is our conversation:
Mom, "Jailyn, Where is Jorja."
Jailyn, "Kina" (China)
Mom, "And what do we need to do?"
Jailyn, "Bing er ooome!" (Bring her home!")

She gets so excited when she sees Jorja's picture.
We have one on are mantel and one in Jailyn/Jorja's room, and ofcourse one in mom's purse.
Jailyn just jumps and jumps yelling, "Gorga! Gorga"
Okay so we are still working on her speech - but it is sooooo cute!!

I hope Jorja is ready for her silly little sister!

Saturday, February 23, 2008

Happy Birthday to Jorja!


Though Jorja's birthday was last week - I am finally getting a chance to post photos of our little celebration! It was a really hard week for me. I miss my little girl so much! We need her home soon!

Thursday, February 21, 2008

Finger prints done!

Yeah! Another step closer!
We were able to get our finger prints taken yesterday morning. We were only in the office for an hour, not too bad.
We were glad that we asked for help from friends to get the kids to school though - being there at opening really helped!
The office was really crowded as we were leaving.

Jorja we'll be there yet!

Tuesday, February 19, 2008

No photos

So I received advice from a few people today - they said their agencies advised them not to post any photos of the children until they get home! I guess other countries have denied adoptions because photos have been posted on the internet. I don't believe China does this, but just in case they begin too I don't want to mess anything up!
I thought about closing the blog but re-thought that too and decided that I can still discuss the process and keep y'all posted without posting photos of Jorja.
Thanks for understanding!

Have a great day!
Jodi Sue :)

Wednesday, February 13, 2008

Fingerprints!

Yeah! We got our appointment to get our fingerprints!
We are one step closer to getting our little girl!!!

Monday, February 11, 2008

Missing Jorja on New Years!


We missed Jorja so much at our New Years celebration! It was a fun evening but it was hard to get through the evening while thinking about her and wanting her home and in my arms! Can't wait to add Jorja to this photo of beautiful kids next year!

Thursday, February 7, 2008

Happy Chinese New Year little Jorja!


This is a photo of Jailyn with our paperwork for CIS for our I-600A form!
Jailyn can't wait to have her sissy come home!
As Jailyn says, "Home where she belongs!"

We wish Jorja was home with us today! This is such an exciting time in China, I hope she is having a good time with her friends! We miss you so much little girl! We just received a receipt from CIS confirming that they received our homestudy paper work - now we just have to wait for them to give us a Fingerprinting day! We're trying to get to you quickly my sweet!!!!

Monday, February 4, 2008

Pray for the Orphans in China!



Please pray for the orphans in China! This harsh weather has hit many of the orphanages! Broken heaters, lack of electricity, no water... Please pray!
This is a letter from Half the Sky Foundation, a report on some of the orphanages. Jorja's orphanage is not listed so we are hoping is she is fine. Of course this momma wont have peace until I know for sure! Isn't that my job as her momma! Thankfully God's arms are around her! I pray he is keeping her warm and loved! I miss her soooo much!!


Hello again,

Welfare institutions in south and central China are having the hardest
time dealing with the weather disaster. This part of the country is
simply not equipped to deal with extreme cold or heavy snow and ice.
The
most common critical problems are power outages, lack of safe
drinking and
cooking water, lack of fuel, diapers and public transportation. In
many
places where buses have stopped running, our Half the Sky nannies have
been walking hours (in one case, 4 hours) along icy roads to get to
the
children. As conditions worsen, our nannies and teachers are
remaining at
the institutions day and night. They have given up the idea of going
home
to their own families for the holidays. They need quilts. They need
warm
clothing. They need coal, water, disposable diapers and food.

Here are the reports I have thus far, while in-flight. I will send
more
soon. Where you don't see a report, either all is well or I don't yet
have information. I will tell you when we've heard from everyone.
We've
also given all the directors an emergency number to call when/if the
situation changes.

Hunan Province -

Chenzhou has had no electricity or water for six days. They are
relying
on coal for heat and cooking. The supermarkets and banks are closed.
Staff is using personal money for baby food, diapers, coal and water.
Costs are rising due to shortages. They have a natural well which,
thankfully, is not frozen. Even the older children are helping to
fetch
water. They have perhaps six days of food remaining. The local
government is overwhelmed by the disaster and is unable to help much.

Shaoyang has seen heavy snow every day for 20 days. There is
sufficient
water and, for the moment, there is power, so the children are warm.
However, 5 of 6 power poles have been downed by weather. Only one
stands
and the institution fears it will fall as well, leaving them without
electricity. Much of the rest of the city is already dark. Children
and
caregivers continue to work and play together. High school students
are
cramming for exams and trying to ignore the cold. Everyone prays
that the
power pole will continue to stand.

Yueyang also has no electricity. The one functioning power generator
is
being used in the children's dormitory. They are relying on coal
heat but
the price has tripled in recent days. They are running out of food
and
have applied to the local Bureau of Civil Affairs for funds to buy
more.
Our HTS nannies have been walking for hours to get to work, often
slipping
on the ice, "even though they try to be cautious."

Xiangtan has had snow for the past 10 days. The main water pipe is
"broken again." There is no water for cooking right now but they do
have
electricity, coal and blankets. They are still able to buy food but
prices have gone way up. Not all of the HTS nannies can get to work
every
day. They are keeping the programs going as well as they can and make
sure that at least five nurturing nannies are there with the babies
every
day, along with the institution's caregivers.

Jiangsu Province -

Changzhou has seen some heavy snows but the director reports that the
children are fine. The director says that he's doing his best to
ensure
that the children do not suffer. Public transportation is crippled
by the
snow and HTS nannies and teachers are waiting for hours to catch a
bus for
home or even walking home in the snowy dark.

Nanjing reports no problems at all despite the heavy snows. I tried
to
fly into Nanjing yesterday but it was not possible.

Anhui Province -

Chuzhou has both water and power. Only public transportation has
failed.
HTS nannies and teachers are walking to work. They are leaving home
extra
early to be there for the children.

Guangxi Province -

Guilin has two broken HTS heater/air conditioners in the Infant
Nurture
rooms and they've asked us to replace. The rooms are very, very
cold.
They ask for more soft matting for the floors and also snow boots for
our
HTS nannies who've been slipping and falling in the ice and snow as
they
come to work. They are so ill-equipped to handle severe weather.

Jiangxi Province -

Fuzhou lost power for a few days but now it is back to normal. The
snow
stopped a couple of days ago but now is falling again. The directors
and
HTS staff have gathered all the children into one big room to keep
them
warm. They've bought New Years clothes for the children and will
have a
party no matter how bad the weather. This year, however, the foster
parents will stay home to keep the children safe. The institution has
enough food and water. They want us to focus on those in more serious
trouble and ask us please not to worry.

Jiujiang says they've never faced such bitter weather. They
desperately
need disposable diapers. Washable diapers cannot be dried. They need
warm clothes, shoes, gloves hats quilts and warm mats for the floors.
They need medicine for infant coughs and colds.

Hubei Province -

Wuhan suffers heavy snows but they still have power. Heaters are
working
but there is no water for bathing. The local community has offered to
take children in for the Chinese New Year and the institution feels
this
may be the best decision to keep them safe.

Huangshi reports that the freeze is so severe that all heater/air
conditioners have stopped functioning. They need quilts and warm
clothes
for the children. They need disposable diapers. Several HTS nannies
have
fallen on the ice on their way to work and they need medicine to treat
cuts and bruises.

Gathering these reports together makes me think about how careful we
have
always been at Half the Sky to maintain our focus on nurture and
education
programs. Ours is not a medical or relief organization. There are
many
wonderful groups who do that work. Probably the primary reason we've
been
able to accomplish so much and reach so many children is because we've
maintained our focus on our core mission -- providing nurturing care
for
children who've lost their families..

But a moment like this really cannot be ignored. The tragedy of
Hurricane
Katrina in the US taught us that no matter how wealthy a country
might be,
its vulnerable citizens (old, poor, ill, and orphaned children) are
the
ones who suffer most when disaster strikes. Even as China seems to be
entering the first world, a disaster like this is quite simply
crippling.
We know that orphaned children will be among those who suffer the
damage
most.

I say this because I think we should break one of Half the Sky's rules
and, if there are sufficient funds raised in the Little Mouse
Emergency
Fund, we should offer relief (water, food, diapers, quilts, clothing)
to
any orphanage where children need help. Let's see how this goes. If
people are as generous as I think they might be, we will work with the
provincial Bureaus of Civil Affairs in every hard-hit community, and
offer
assistance to all welfare institutions where there is need.

Please lend a hand, however you can. You can donate to the Little
Mouse
Emergency Fund by calling us in the US at +1-510-525-3377 or in Asia
at
+852- 2520-5266 or by visiting us at www.halfthesky.org. Once there,
you
can click on "Donate Now"
http://give.halfthesky.org/prostores/servlet/Categories?
category=Direct+Contributions
or go to http://www.halfthesky.org/help/docs/usdonation-
orderform.pdf to
download a form to mail or fax. Donations are tax-deductible in US,
Canada and Hong Kong.

Please forward this message and tell your friends and family.

I will be back with an update very, very soon.

Thank you!

Jenny

Jenny Bowen
Executive Director
Half the Sky Foundation
www.halfthesky.org

Half the Sky was created in order to enrich the lives and enhance the
prospects for orphaned children in China. We establish and operate
infant nurture and preschool programs, provide personalized learning
for older children and establish loving permanent family care and
guidance for children with disabilities. It is our goal to ensure
that every orphaned child has a caring adult in her life and a chance
at a bright future.

Wednesday, January 30, 2008

Another Child Waits

I've watched my friends go home from here,
to their families, one by one,
Yet here I stay thru all these years,
Waiting for you to come.

I know that I'm not perfect,
Yet they tell me that I'm bright,
I just wish that you could only look,
past what is wrong, to what is right.

I've watched my friends go home from here,
I dream of how that'd feel,
A pair of loving arms to hold me,
Will this dream ever become real?

I know that I would be home by now,
If not for fears of the unknown,
Yet I have many of my own you see,
In that you're not alone.

I've watched my friends go home from here,
It's happening to Meili today,
But wait! Her Mama has something for me,
I take it and don't know what to say.

With trembling hands, I open the book,
And peek at what's inside,
A picture of a family,
"Can this be true?" I cried!

I've watched my friends go home from here,
It's my turn now, it's true,
I linger at the gate for one last time,
Then bravely walk on out with you.
_____________

I can't wait until we can send Jorja a package! We should be able to send her a few packages before we are able to travel to get her. I have already begun arranging photos of the family for her. Hopefully this will help her feel confident in that we are doing everything possible to get to her!
Please remember our Jorja in your prayers! I get so sad at night, as I tuck the other kids in their beds - and know that Jorja doesn't have anyone doing that for her. Pray this time goes quickly for her!

Sunday, January 27, 2008

Kisses in The Wind

I hold you in my hear and touch you in my dreams.
You are here each day with me, at least that's how it seems.
I know you wonder where we are... what's taking us so long.
But remember child, I love you so and God will keep you strong.

Now go outside and feel the breeze and let it touch your skin...
Because tonight, just as always, I blow you kisses in the wind.
May God hold you in His hand until I can be with you.
I promise you, my darling, I'm doing all that I can do.

Very soon, you'll have a family for real, not just pretend.
But for tonight, just as always, I blow you kisses in the wind.
May God wrap you in His arms and hold you very tight.
And let angels bring the kisses that I send to you each night.

-Author Unknown

RAD

I have been doing my reading on RAD (Reactive Attachment Disorder).
Adopting a 4 year old will be totally different then adopting a 16 month old who wasn't walking or feeding herself yet. So I am trying to prepare myself and the family. Well, let me tell you!
I got some wonderful news!!!

Psychologists say: It is a good idea to dress the child in clothing that match Mom and other members of the family! This gives the child a sense of belonging!!!

How cool is that? So, when Jorja gets home and the whole family is dressed similar there will be no negative comments made! Do you hear me Uncle Jay B? It's all done with love for Jorja and making her feel comfortable with her family! :)
Has nothing to do with me wanting to dress Jailyn and Jorja a like! :)

Mom, we have clearance to buy the girls matching outfits!!! It's that cool!
(oh, poor Jorja!)
Can't wait to get her home!!!

Thursday, January 24, 2008

Just look at that beautiful face!

The newest photo we received of Jorja shows her inquisitive side! Like her sisters!!

Photo of Jorja

Look at our sweet girl!!! A mom of one of Jorja's friends sent this photo to us. Jorja is in the sweatshirt with the dark sleeves! I can't wait to hold her tight!!!

The second photo is her "fish face". Actually, she was just given a Hersey's kiss candy. Like mother like daughter!


Monday, January 7, 2008

yeah! We've jumped one hurrdle!

I met with our Social Worker today! She is wonderful! If there is anyone in North Dallas who needs a social worker for an adoption, give me a call! I will give you her information! She Is great!
We were kinda nervous to tell her about Jorja. She really isn't big on "out of birth order adoption". She was so excited for us I couldn't believe it! Of course, she warned us that for every year a child is in an orphanage you can expect a 4 month delay in development. I must agree with her. From what we have experienced with Jailyn and seen in others this is true. So, even though Jorja will be 4 years old. We can expect her to act like a 2 year old in many ways. According to her height and weight measurements she's the size of a 2 year old too. ( a small two year old). Our Social Worker also warned us that since Jailyn has been home for almost a year - she will probably be a head of Jorja in many ways. It will be like having twins I guess! How fun! :)

Beverley, our SW, is so excited to get our paper work done! I am so glad! Maybe we will hold our little angel sooner then I expected! Why do the Olympics have to be in China this year?
And though the Olympics are in Beijing, why do airfares go up so high to fly to Guangzhou?
Doesn't make sense!!

Tomorrow our LOI (Letter of Intent) will go to China. This letter is requesting permission from the Chinese Government for us to go ahead with Jorja's adoption. They hold all the strings. Okay, God actually holds all the cards! Please pray with us that all our paperwork gets going faster then later! We can't wait to bring home our little sweetie!

Wednesday, January 2, 2008

My heart hurts!

I am so excited to have found our little girl and can't wait to hold her in our arms.  But, my heart also aches for those friends who are still waiting to see the face of their child!  I have many friends who have been waiting approx. 24 months (some a longer wait, some haven't reached the 2 yr mark yet and are still waiting!).  I know God has lead us down different paths! Please don't be mad at us!  Please look at it as another child is finding their forever family!  
Of course, I am the type of person that wants to make everyone happy -I have no control over this.  As I pray for your journey, please pray for ours too!
Can't wait for y'all to see your babies faces!